Tip of the day 21-30
Tip of the day 21
Look for the inner qualities.
As always, God gives us the tip on how to get a good relation when saying:
"Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain,
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." Proverbs 31:30
To have a lasting and happy relation, the important is the inner qualities - not if a person is more or less beautiful.
And how we look will change anyway as time goes on.
But the inner qualities will normally not change.
Therefore, go for a Man / Woman with inner qualities.
The external can often be improved anyway.)
Tip of the day 22:
Make sure to spend quality time alone with the person you love❤️
Without the phone, tv or other disturbances.
Tip of the day 23
What is it that a real woman wants from you?
The same as you want from her!
The Heart ❤️
Not your money. Not fame.
Your love, your heart ❤️
Tip of the day 24
Be genuine!
A real man is a man of his word.
He stands by his word and his promises.
Tip of the day 25
A real man and a real woman is honest about himself / herself.
The truth is that in ourselves, none of us are very good, but Jesus can help us.
Facing the facts as they are and realizing the truth about ourselves is a strength.
Fooling ourselves is one of the most stupid things we can do.
Tip of the day 26
Flowers are always a winner and a external sign of the inner love ❤️
In the same way as the flowers will wither in a weeks time - showing your love need to be done over and over again.
So it is a good idea to give your girl a flower bouquet every week if you can.
Tip of the day 27
Be an open book.
One of the most important things in a relation - is not to hide anything.
Your girlfriend / boyfriend / wife / husband needs to know everything about you.
If you are not yet married - hiding things will never work.
He or she will find out.
And then be unhappy that you deceived him / her!
If you are married - it is the same.
Deceiving the other will never work long term.
He or she will find out.
It is so much better to be honest and up front with weaknesses than hiding them.
We all have weaknesses - the love must be stronger than our weaknesses.
So be an open book to your man / woman.
He / she should be able to read you as if you were an open book 📕
Tip of the day 28
Be an open book, part 2 - To you that are not married.
Following up from yesterdays post of the importance that your boyfriend / girlfriend / husband / wife should be able to read you as if you were an open book 📕
Trying to hide things will almost certainly lead to the relation getting stuck in a marsh.
If you are not yet married, a good idea is to sit down in the sofa with candle lights, and open up, making sure that nothing is hidden.
And you as a man - be a man and be the first to tell about your weaknesses.
We all have weaknesses, and as such love should have no problem to bear with each others weaknesses as long as there is a will to get it right.
Tip of the day 29
To you as a woman:
Be proud to be a woman.
God created you to be a woman, not a man.
Enjoy being a woman, don't try to be something God did not create you to be.
(And most men want a feminine woman.)
God has created us to be different, not copies of each other.
It is nothing wrong with liking to do your hair, makeup and clothes.
(Of course as long as it doesn't get too important in life and takes the attention away from what is really important - the inner values.)
So live life to the full and enjoy being the woman God created you to be.
Tip of the day 30
To you as a man:
Be proud to be a man.
God created you to be a man, not a woman.
Enjoy being a man, don't try to be something God did not create you to be.
(And most women want a man that is a man.)
God has created us to be different, not copies of each other.
It is nothing wrong with liking cars, boats and building things.
(Of course as long as it doesn't get too important in life and takes the attention away from what is really important - the inner values.)
So live life to the full and enjoy being the man God created you to be.